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Hi friend,

I know reaching out for help with your marriage can feel overwhelming. Thoughts and emotions are probably swirling in your mind:

What if my partner refuses to seek help?
Is this the right time?
Maybe things will get better on their own once the kids get older?

I get it.

Whenever my husband and I have arguments, my anxiety skyrockets. I lose sleep, can't focus, and my immune system takes a hit, leaving me with a sore throat the next day.

Some people can compartmentalize their marriage issues and put them on the "shelf" until later, but I can't. I used to think it was a weakness, a remnant of my childhood trauma from my parents' divorce.

But I've learned that seeking help early is my superpower. Rather than letting issues fester like cancer, I tackle them head-on, even if they seem little compared to others.

Life is always happening. But will it happen to you or for you? That depends on how you prepare.

You have two choices. Either life makes your marriage, or you make your marriage. Either you play defense or offense. Either you react to life happening, or you proactively decide how you’ll show up for each other during this season of life.

This is what Relationship Remake is all about. You—working 1:1 with me—diving into your personal season, relationship, and remaking your relationship into what YOU want.

Why now is the best time to seek help

Shortcuts to resolve challenges: A personal mentor or coach is your shortcut to resolving your challenges. When you’re in the middle of a transition, you and your partner need to troubleshoot now—you can’t wait to read a book or binge-watch YouTube videos hoping you’ll find the solution to your situation.
Outside perspective: Information you find online can’t always address your unique situation. Having a coach helps you see blind spots and apply the right solutions tailored to the context of your life.
Life is full: Full calendars, family trips, kids getting sick, school commitments, sleep regressions, financial decisions—there’s so much that depends on you and your partner. The busier you are and the fuller life is, the more you can’t afford to continue putting off your relationship. The more you can’t afford to be at odds with each other, the more you can't afford not being on the same page.
Prevent the little from growing into big: It’s crazy how the littlest things, like your partner forgetting where he put your phone, can grow into a cancer if we don’t handle it properly. It may sound silly, but I’ve heard of couples who stopped talking to each other for weeks because one kept losing the car key or over a shampoo. Addressing issues now makes the next month, year, and beyond easier.

“This is an excellent way to enhance marriage and family relationships. I highly recommend this unique approach to creating meaningful relationship experiences.”

-DR. GARY CHAPMAN, AUTHOR OF THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES®

Can I be honest with you?

The times my husband and I needed help felt like the worst possible times.

The first time, I was nine months pregnant and wrapping up the launch of my online program. My husband wanted to buy a duplex—a big financial decision involving our credit and a loan.

Another time, during our son's four-month sleep regression and teething phase. We were tired, our brains were foggy, and my husband kept losing everything—his phone, my phone, the car keys, you name it. I was also preparing for our first family vacation (with a toddler and our baby) and I decided to book us a couples coaching session the day before we left.

"This is not the time"

"We didn't plan for this in the budget"

And to that, I'll say, I didn't plan to have this disagreement, but because it's happening and life is obviously happening, I'd rather prepare us to be equipped than feel like my marriage is crumbling while everything else is going on. I need US to be good NOW more than ever.

Both times, life was happening.

It didn’t feel like the right time to get help for our marriage, but in hindsight, it’s just what we needed to get us back on track.

Why I Became a Trained Marriage Coach

The first time I sought help for my marriage, my therapist was on maternity leave. I had to wait three months for her to return.

The counselor my pastor recommended wasn’t helpful at all. My husband and I walked away with a couple of Bible verses, no practical advice, and a sinking feeling that this was the kind of help couples were getting.

My marriage is my most important relationship, and I couldn’t rely on unqualified help or wait three months for my therapist to return. So, I signed up for the soonest relationship training available for licensed counselors and professionals.

My husband joined me, and we both attended the training. While surrounded by licensed counselors and professionals, it dawned on me: This know-how should be available to everyone. Every couple should have these skills—not just professionals.

We’re all born into relationships. You. Me. Everyone. Most of us were not taught how to have healthy relationships. Some of us grew up in dysfunctional homes where our parents didn't set the right example, and we weren't intentionally taught the essential skills necessary for healthy relationships.

So what happens? We end up showing up in our adult relationships influenced by our childhood and early experiences, often without even realizing it.

The good news?

As children, we didn't get to choose the environment of our relationships. We absorbed, like sponges, how people around us handled relationships. But now, as adults, we have the power to influence and reshape our relationships. We get to start with a blank canvas, prune out what we don't like, and fill it with the kind of experiences, habits, and interactions we want.

We need a remake. A re-do. An opportunity to build the relationship we desire from the ground up, but this time with a higher level of consciousness, purpose, and intention.

My goal is to fully equip my clients with the systems, strategies, and skills they need to navigate life as a team, so they can experience the joy, love, and fulfillment that can only be found in the context of relationships.

What My Coaching Program Offers:

Skills for Life: Like riding a bike or driving, relationships require skills. Many of us grew up in dysfunctional environments, bringing childhood influences into our adult relationships. My coaching program helps you develop the skills necessary to navigate life with your partner as a team.
Set Your Marriage Up for Success: You can learn these skills with me or struggle in the real world. Think of what it's costing you—wasted time, anxiety, and stress.

Common Challenges Addressed:

Not getting help around the house
Not being on the same page about important areas in life
Struggling to make decisions together
Lack of intimacy and physical connection
Sacrificing the relationship for the sake of a busy season or work commitments
Managing financial stress and disagreements
Dealing with differing parenting styles and approaches
Navigating extended family dynamics and boundaries

Life is messy and full of challenges, but with the right support, you can navigate it with more love, flow, and ease.

If you’re ready to transform your relationship into your strongest support system, a true partnership, and a united front where you feel loved, seen, and heard, join my private coaching program. Together, we’ll work towards remaking your relationship into what you want.

Ready to get started?

Let’s do this. Don’t wait for the "perfect time"—the time is now.

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